Slow Sex

What I am most interested in right now is the expansive pleasure that comes from slowing…

right…

down…

When was the last time you let yourself truly rest in pleasure? A moment when your body and mind had permission to drop all ideas and efforts, and all that mattered was the Present Moment Excitement of feeling your body as it touches another?

So much is possible when we create the time and space to let go of all the urgency with which we live our lives, and pause to tune into our bodies and ask ourselves how we truly want to touch and be touched in this moment. Our bodies have so much capacity for pleasure, and for many of us most of the body beyond the genitals is uncharted erotic territory . When we give ourselves permission to truly explore and get curious about what more our bodies can feel, we often surprise ourselves.

This may be a natural or familiar space for you, in which case, let’s sink right into it! Or, it might be something you’re curious about but don’t yet know how to access. If you’re wanting to learn, I can guide you in some practices and touch games that will build greater capacity for feeling your body, noticing and asking for what you want, building arousal, and dropping into the pleasure of receiving and giving the gift of touch. Our bodies together will be the practice ground.

There is an invitation here to leave all ideas at the door about what we think sex is, what we think we should be doing, or what we think we should like.

What does your body actually want in this moment?

What’s it like when I touch you here, like this?

Is there something that would make this touch even better right now?

I would love nothing more than to go on this journey of discovery with you.

What To Expect When We Meet

I conduct all sessions from my private space in Brunswick East. I have a large, open living room full of plants and natural light, as well as a cosy bedroom with a futon on the floor for further exploration.

When you arrive we’ll sit down together to say hi, and I’ll ask you some questions about what brings you here and whether there are particular things you’re wanting to learn or explore. I might make some suggestions and we’ll decide how we’ll spend our time together based on your interest and intentions.

I will offer a guided embodiment practice to help us drop into our bodies before we move into any kind of further exploration, and from here the space is open for whatever direction you were curious to explore. We might move into slow, teasing touch, building anticipation, I might introduce a touch game for us to explore together, or we might take some more time getting curious about what you’re noticing in your body and feeling for desire and requests. I will invite open communication throughout anything we’re doing together, and if it supports why you’re here I’ll offer extra guidance or coaching.

All the things you might expect from a ‘girlfriend experience’ service can happen here - cuddling, kissing, oral both ways, penetrative sex, however penetration is not the main event and we’ll make sure we’ve warmed each other up well and truly before bringing in any focused genital touch. Any fingers or oral on me will be directed by me, so you can learn exactly how I want to be touched in that moment and practice attuning and responding to another body. I’ll also guide you to show me exactly how you like to be touched (and we can find out together if you’re not yet sure!). Orgasm may or may not happen depending on whether it’s important to you, and whether your body opens towards it. It might be that we’re having too much fun discovering all the other pleasures our bodies have to offer us.

There will be time at the end for reflection and coming down together after our erotic exploration. You will be welcome to shower before we say our goodbyes for now.

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If you’re feeling curious, excited (including nervous excitement!) or turned-on imagining a Slow Sex session with me I would love to hear from you! I am welcoming those I have played with before as well as those I haven’t yet met, however I suggest reaching out early as I am only available two days each month.